DON’T LET YOU MINDSET BE YOUR ENEMY OF PROGRESS. Andrew is a young man who is in love with Elizabeth, but the only problem Andrew has is that he is poor and he is scared that if he decides to ask Elizabeth out on a date, she would not agree because of his situation.
Confused and depressed, Andrew decided to ask Mark a good friend of his for advise since Mark was perceived to be wiser than all his other friends.
Andrew, to be candid with you I think you need to travel to a far away land where you would be able to make enough money for yourself. When you have made enough money and you can call yourself a man, you will comeback and ask her out.
Thinking of the idea, he resolved in his heart to follow Mark words.
Luckily for him, he made enough money where he went to, and he also made it a culture to send letters to Elizabeth every month, expressing his love for her and also asking her to be patient since his purpose of travelling was to make enough money that would make her comfortable for the rest of her life.
After seven years, he came back to marry his beloved Elizabeth, only for him to realise that she had married the poor postman that always delivered his letters to her.
Many people are like Andrew, they want to take the next steps when everything is well with them. They know what they want, but they are always slow in pursuing what they want, and most times they end up losing it.
One of the worse things that can happen to a man is when he decides to be the stumbling block militating against his success. Many fail to try. They fail to give their business idea a shot. They are either scared of failure, denial or betrayal.
Remember, if Andrew had asked Elizabeth out while he was poor and he works hard to make the money he eventually made, he would not have lost her to the poor postman. Be wise, DON’T make the mistake of Andrew. If you can conceive it, you can achieve it.
Seun Emmanuel Alaofin.
I would not join them in deceiving you that money is not important. Although it is true that money is not everything, it has been proven that money solves more than 50% of a mans problem.
Do what is right to be wealthy. DON’T misquote me, I am not saying that money is everything. All I am saying is that money is very necessary.
Change your mindset. Work hard and make legitimate money.
Seun Emmanuel Alaofin.
Hey ladies, you really need to show your man that you have what it takes to drive him nuts. Prove your worth to him and watch him stay. There is hardly any woman or girl out there who does not want to be in a relationship where the guy is crazy about them. Make a guy go crazy over you! Making a guy go crazy is not that hard at all, with a little time and patience, you will be able to. Below, I am going to give you some tips on how to make a guy go crazy over you.
10. SHOW HIM YOUR
First of all, you need to show him your independence. It is important that you show the guy just how strong you really are. Men have a tendency to be attracted to those women that are independent. If you think sticking with the man at all times and relying on him will work, then you may want to think
9. YOU ARE NOT A PARASITE
Constantly sticking to a man and
following him around is not going to make him want you more. You do not always have to be in front of him preparing yourself to do anything he wants. Therefore, it is important that you give him some space.
8. DO NOT TAKE HIS PLACE
As much as I always talk about
equality, there are some roles that you cannot do when you are in a strong relationship. When you allow a man to show his masculinity, he will take the lead. You should be thankful when he
steps in and helps you in some way.
7. KNOW HOW TO ENJOY YOUR LIFE:
If you have a gloomy appearance and you are always looking sad and depressed, then you cannot expect to attract a man. Prove to him that you have a good life too.
6. GIVE SUPPORT WHEN RELEVANT
No matter how strong someone is, even men, there are always points in their life when they will need to have some type of support. When you see that he needs it, you should be there for him and help him out.
5. ALWAYS BE PRETTY
When many women get married, they let themselves go simply because they now have their man. You should not let yourself go. If you went to the salon to get your hair done before you were married, then keep doing it. If you were smart when he first married you, then stay smart!
I have seen many girls that try to
spend as much time with their friends in order to make their guy jealous. This will drive him crazy thinking of those long hours with your friends. While I would never do this, there are some girls out there that will recommend this. Again, it all depends on who you
are. The more he craves for your
company, the more he is going to go crazy for you.
3. BE A GREAT LISTENER
One sure way to get a boyfriend is to pay attention to him. When he is talking, you should show him that you are interested in him by listening to him. Guys love it when they have a girl that cares about them and it drives them crazy. Don’t be self-centred and always talk about your desires and your
life. Give him some space and let him speak his mind. Men like it when they are appreciated and praised for their actions.
2. MAKE YOURSELF UNIQUE
There are many women out there that are attractive too. You need to do something that sets you apart from them. Find something that is unique and go with it. Don’t just flow with trend.
1. JUST BE YOURSELF
In the end, you should just be yourself. Do not try to be like some super star you once saw on television. Be yourself and earn his respect. To make a guy go crazy over you, just follow my 10 tips.
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Also, feel free to share your experiences. What do you do to set yourself apart from the other
girls? How did you make your man fall head over heels in love with you?
By Adedokun Adenike Olusola
Have you ever imagined how great inventions were discovered? Have you ever wondered how great success principles were discovered?
These set of people asked themselves thought provoking questions. Why is this here? Why is this happening now? What can be done to make life better? What can we do to improve our standard of living?
Asking questions about things around you, is the first step to discovering who you really are. Have you started asking these questions?
Good Morning Great Minds.
Seun Emmanuel Alaofin.
Put a smile on your face. If the smile is nor coming out, force it until you get it. When you smile it knocks the devil and your enemies off their feet.
A smile brings along the motivation you need to succeed. A smile gets you attracted to destiny helpers.
A smile leaves you happy. Happy people are blessed people. With a smile on your face, you are never on the loosing side of life.
Hope a smile on your face becomes your trademark.
Take a minute, forget all the pains, sadness and worry. Take your eyes of the disappointments, commotion and confusions and remember moments that made you smile, made you happy and left you rejoicing.
Rather than complain about the moments that made you sad, be grateful about the moments that made you happy.
There is nothing that beats the devil than seeing a MaN rejoicing when his plans for his life is the opposite. Celebrate your life!!!
Smiling has been my trademark this year, not because I have all I need, but because I understand that having a smile on my face sets me on the right path to achieve all my dreams.
As you celebrate Christmas today, I want to implore you not to close the curtains of 2014. So much can still happen before this year runs out. I have heard testimonies of people who got new jobs on the 31st of December, I have seen people who won contracts, married and gave birth to children’s as the year was getting over.
This year, you can still meet your destiny helpers, win a new contract, get a new job, marry the wife of your dream, get the project you have always dreamed of and get your heart desire.
Even if you have given up this year, give God a chance to prove himself. There is nothing God cannot do. That dream of yours that you have decided to shift till next year, still give it a shot. Trying would never kill you, trust me.
Christ is the ultimate reason for this season. Remember this even as you tear the chickens and consume the ogufe’s.
I am Seun Emmanuel Alaofin, and the love I have for you is stronger than what you think. I am your number one fan.
John Maxwell would say that the last thing he would accept is for a man like him to take him for granted.
Mathew Ashimolowo would also say that another form of slavery is to totally depend on another man for survival.
As much as meeting with people remains very paramount, never allow anybody to take you for granted, never allow any man to reduce your self worth.
Seun Emmanuel Alaofin.
One thing you must understand is that those you look up to today started just like you. Many of them were not born rich and famous like they are now.
If they can make it, then there is nothing stopping you from making it too. If they can be successful, you too can.
Its the same message; Believe in yourself.
How is today going?
Seun Emmanuel Alaofin.