QUICK POINTS TO NOTE IN A RELATIONSHIP

1. Define your relationship. Know if you are just dating, for marriage, or friends with benefit.
2. Every relationship starts with God. A partner that does not know God can never be loyal.
3. Every relationship is peculiar; don’t compare your relationship with someone else’s relationship.
4. Patience is a key factor in every relationship. Practise it.
5. Respect is very important in every relationship and it is meant to be from both parties.
6. In every relationship, both partners have to have the same core values.
7. When you forget your 1^st love which is God, you would not find a real 2^nd love.
8. No trust = No relationship. There is no need to be in a relationship when there is no trust.
9. There must be mutual understanding in every relationship.
10. Always remember to appreciate your partner for always being there for you. It goes a long way.
11. Both partners must be compatible with each other.
12. Know the likes and dislikes of your partner.
13. Know the weakness and strength of your partner.
14. Don’t enter any relationship out of pity.
15. A relationship is a 50 – 50 relationship. Both parties must participate and they must be beneficial to each other.
16. A man that has no plan for his life has no plan for you.
17. True love is the foundation of a real relationship.
18.  If the purpose of your relationship is not known, abuse is inevitable.
19. Don’t enter into a relationship just because you want to know how a relationship looks like
20. Don’t go for a partner because he or she makes you smile, but go for a partner that would leave you with that smile.
21. Pretence = no good relationship
22. Check your partner well. Check his heart if he has a conscience.
23. There is always a point of attraction in every relationship. Don’t forget that.
24. Don’t go for a player, go for a real man.
25. Jealousy is an important factor in every relationship, but when it becomes too much it kills the relationship.
26. Relationship involves sacrifice of time, money and physical attraction. Don’t enter into one when you would not have the time.
27. Maturity is very important in every relationship
28. If your partner loves you because of what you have, he or she would see someone who has much more. Don’t be deceived.
29. If a woman loves you because you are handsome, she would see a more handsome man. Don’t fall a maga.
30. It’s good to be able to say your mind, but too many complaints lead to fast breakup.

 — Copyright © 2014 Seun Emmanuel Alaofin