10 TEN TOP SIGNS THAT SHE WOULD MAKE A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD MOTHER
By Adedokun Olusola Adenike
Getting married is not an easy task and it goes beyond being head over heels with someone. You just need to get it right. It is life-changing and can be
destructive if it is embarked on with the wrong person. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life, forever. Here are 10 signs that the woman in your life will make a good wife.
1. She’s Nurturing
A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children.
She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling. Some ladies are not accommodating at all. They don’t want to see your friends or families around and they don’t care.
2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine. Someone that can represent you anywhere.
3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your
family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round. No matter the age or work difference. She has to respect you. You would see the signs when you are dating.
4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong line. She should be submissive. She has to drop her ego no matter the position she holds.
5. She’s emotionally stable
The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise stable. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge. She should know how to help you when you are down.
6. She loves children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of
taking care of the family you build
together. Some women can’t stand the sight of a dirty child. They just want househelps to even suck the child.
7. She can cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family. If she can’t cook because of her family background, she should be willing to learn. If she is not, find your square root o.
8. You have a lot in common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity but sometimes the difference you have creates the fun out of it.
9. You have great communication line
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel
comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you
communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in. You need to understand yourselves well and your temperaments too.
10. You can laugh together
Mutual laughter is an essential
component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humour in the little things
and can have a laugh together.
——-Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife. Love is about accepting that person you’ve chosen even with all their flaws and deciding to love them no matter what.
What other qualities do you consider necessary for an ideal wife? Share your opinions in the comment box.