LET’S TALK ABOUT LIFE with ATINUKE BADAMOSI
Sometimes people come into our life’s, and we know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some purpose, be a blessing, teach us some lessons or to help us find out who we really are, what is our purpose in life and what we want to become in life. Most times, we never know who this people really are; they may be that course mate of ours, our longtime friends, our neighbors, our friends that are not really close or that person that we think we could never be close with, but the day we meet them, we would realize that they are that missing link that we have always be looking for.
Everything that happens to us in life happens for a reason or a purpose, and nothing in life happens by means of chance, luck, and advantage or any other way. Moment of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occurs to test the limits of our soul. Without tests and trials in our lives, we would not see any meaning and purpose to what we were made to exist for, and we would not be able to find that problem we are meant to solve.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have made you to learn about trust even though it might be in the hard way and they have taught you the importance of being courteous when you open your heart. They also make you know how to cherish those that appreciate and love us truly.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you how to open up your heart to things, and how to love unconditionally. They make you know that they are still people that appreciate you and know your worth.
The people we meet in the journey of our life can either affect our life positively or negatively. They play a part in our success or our failure. Most times when we meet people, we should learn to tap from their good sides and forget their bad sides. Nobody is a saint and nobody is perfect, but when we begin to copy people imperfect side of life, we are compounding to our imperfect sides. We look at the good sides and neglect the bad sides.
One of the most precious gifts we have is the gift of life, and we have the power to make from our life’s anything we wish. We have the ability within us to be rich, very rich, average, poor or very poor depending on what we belief and how seriously we take our lives. Appreciate every minute and time you spend in life, make every moment in life memorable because once you live that moment, you may never experience it again.
Tell yourself every day that you are a great individual and belief in yourself, because nobody believes in a person that does not believe in him or herself. People appreciate people who have defined their life, purpose, mission and vision in life. The world is waiting for problem solvers, and for you to be among this few set of problem solvers, we have got to belief in ourselves.
Most importantly, create your own life and then go out and live it absolutely with NO regrets, and more importantly life presents us with lessons each day. Be wise enough to learn each lesson of life so that it can always be a motivating, inspiring and driving factor that would take you beyond the level you never expected.